In the name of God
Pet peeve = something that you strongly dislike because it always annoys you.
People have their own pet peeves.
For example when you have date and you’re friend is not punctual, you get upset and in your view this behavior is regarded as a pet peeve.
Sometimes, people really don’t mean to annoy you but you get annoyed and this annoyance can lead to some problems or even can lead to end of a relationship.
For handling some problems which occur because of experiencing pet peeves there are some good ways which will be referred in following part.
1. 1. Don’t jump to conclusion. Maybe, it’s not that person’s fault and they are obliged to do something which can be regarded as an obnoxious behavior but in fact, they really don’t want to bother you.
2. 2. Try to be in their shoes. If you consider their behavior and focus on their behavior you can figure out that they make mistake and do something wrong intentionally or not.
3. 3. Try to be frank with them and talk to them about their behavior, Maybe they are not aware of their behavior.
4. 4. Try to be calmer and don’t do anything in hurry. Sometimes, it’s very easy to overlook someone’s fault. Try to forgive people.
What’s your verdict on this topic?